Thank you. Sincerely. I don’t know what is going on except that I am receiving a bevy of messages calling me a ‘fake lesbian’ because I stated that love should not be seen as tue or false simple by gender.
I’m sorry, isn’t that what the LGBT community has been fighting for?
Apparently when I said that sexuality isn’t black and white, meaning not everyone falls into little boxes, that was taken as me saying that I am better than others. ??
I was basically attempted to be crucified by a young lesbian who went militant on me saying that I am being superior and massively offensive because I stated that sexuality is not black and white, but all shades and we have no right to state otherwise. … I have no idea how that is offensive.
She says that I am offending ‘completely’ gay and lesbian people and I have NO idea what I am talking about. Which, is incredibly offensive to me because she knows nothing of my life, but hey, I was young and refused to actually listen to what people are saying once, too.
I was in no way saying it cannot be all about a particular gender for some, nor was I suggesting people who only love women are somehow less, as I was accused of. The mere idea is ludicrous - the love of my life is a woman who strictly loves women. I strictly love women, but I don’t rule out the possibility of loving another human being regardless of gender.
And I in no way am stating that everyone should follow that line of thinking. Everyone has their own understanding of their sexuality. Which was the WHOLE point in me saying that sexuality isn’t black and white in the FIRST place.
I responded to her second horrifically offensive post, but then deleted it because honestly? There is no point in trying to calmly get someone to understand that you are saying the same thing when one party is overly emotional and refusing to listen.
Plus, it’s my last weekend day and I’m watching Scandal. I don’t want an argument no one can win.
Thank you for your lovely messages. They really made me feel better.